Punching Past Plateaus

Nicholas Urbaniak • January 27, 2025

A Balanced Approach to Big Goals

There was a time not so long ago when I believed my glory days of fitness were behind me. I used to think, “Maybe I’m just not that fit anymore. I don’t have it in me to go back to the gym like I used to.” If I did attempt a comeback, I’d typically go from zero to all-in—like tackling a 5K without training or doing an intense hike once a summer—and end up so sore it took a week to recover. That prolonged soreness became an excuse to skip subsequent workouts, and I found myself in a discouraging cycle of burnouts and retreats.


This New Year’s resolution started off much the same way. My friend and I decided to jump-start 2025 with 50 burpees a day, right from January 1. It felt impressive on paper, but the reality was punishing. After just a few days, I was beyond sore. My arms, legs, and core ached to the point that I dreaded every burpee. I knew I couldn’t keep pushing at this level without seriously risking injury or losing all motivation.


Shifting Focus to Recovery

That’s when my mindset began to shift—from “How can I push myself harder?” to “How can I recover so I can keep going?” I realized that if I wanted to do this for longer than a week, I needed a plan that emphasized rest and recovery as much as the workouts themselves. Proper nutrition, consistent hydration, and prioritizing sleep were suddenly at the forefront of my mind. I started paying closer attention to fueling my body, drinking more water, and establishing a more consistent bedtime. It dawned on me that true fitness progress hinges on allowing your body to rebuild and adapt to the stresses you place on it.


To make it all sustainable, my friend and I scaled our goal back to 25 burpees a day for January, with the idea of gradually working up to 50. This more realistic target let me focus on recovery between workouts—and I found myself finally sticking to a plan without hitting the dreaded wall of burnout.


Reintroducing Boxing Classes

Once daily burpees felt manageable, my wife and I returned to our local boxing gym—a place we loved to hit the heavy bags before we got our puppy, Sully. Walking in, I braced for the high-intensity drills that once left me unable to lift my arms by the end of class (my wife had to drive us home that day!). But with improved recovery practices and a more moderate daily burpee regimen, I noticed my endurance was better. While the class still pushed me to my limits, I left feeling challenged yet energized—and not so wiped out that I couldn’t function the next day.


Goals Evolve, and That’s Okay

This journey showed me that I’m capable of more than I initially believed—just not all at once. My old approach of going all-out and then quitting needed an overhaul. The real goal wasn’t just about “50 burpees” or “one more brutal workout.” It was about embracing daily movement and consistent progress. Nowadays, if I do a boxing class, lift weights, shovel snow, or choose a lighter workout, it all counts toward keeping me active and building my fitness base.


Lessons Learned


  1. Genuine Desire Fuels Action
    You’ll never stick to a plan you don’t truly want. Define why you want to get fit—more energy, better health, or feeling strong in daily life.

  2. Adjust, Don’t Abandon
    Going from 50 burpees to 25 wasn’t defeat; it was strategy. When you’re hitting a wall, pivot your plan so you can keep going rather than give up.

  3. Recovery is Part of the Process
    Proper nutrition, hydration, and sleep are essential to repairing muscle and avoiding burnout. If you’re not giving your body what it needs, no workout plan will stick.

  4. Consistency Over Intensity
    One heroic workout that leaves you sore for a week isn’t as effective as consistent, moderate effort that keeps you eager for the next session.

  5. Celebrate Progress
    Remember how impossible those first 50 burpees seemed? Now 25 is no problem. Maybe you can lift your arms after boxing class or drive yourself home. Notice these shifts and let them motivate you.


The Power of Time and Daily Effort

Time moves faster than we realize. In a couple of months of steady, properly recovered work, your strength and stamina can skyrocket. Slowly but surely, you’ll reach a fitness level that once seemed out of reach—and then you’ll surpass it.


Actionable Steps


  1. Start with a 5-Minute Task
    Choose something so brief you can’t rationalize skipping—like a set of squats, a walk around the block, or 10 burpees. Even if you’re exhausted, 5 minutes is manageable.

  2. Prioritize Recovery
    Fuel your body with balanced meals, drink enough water, and establish a consistent sleep schedule. Consider light stretches or foam rolling to speed up recovery.

  3. Track and Adapt
    Keep a quick log of your daily activity. If 25 burpees become easy, push it to 30—or switch to a different exercise like boxing or lifting weights.

  4. Be Flexible
    Life happens. If you miss a day or feel unusually sore, scale back or try a gentler activity. The key is staying active, not hitting an arbitrary number at all costs.

  5. Celebrate and Keep Climbing
    Each small win—fewer breaks during a workout, reduced soreness, or a heavier lifting weight—validates your effort. Honor these moments, then aim a little higher.


Start wherever you need to feel excited about what could happen if you stick with it. Then adjust as you need to stay consistent.

That’s how I feel now, and I think it resonates with anyone trying to start (or restart) a fitness journey. Don’t be surprised if, eventually, your newfound consistency actually has you enjoying the burn of a tough workout—you just never know where your progress will take you. Continue to test your limits, but also recognize when you’re not being realistic and make the necessary changes. Over time, those adjustments will lead you to levels of fitness you might never have believed possible.

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